It's soooo close to being awesome, but so far away. Making game invitations as the host meant that it would redirect to "connect self" for other people, because we can't get the IP address from the host.
If anyone has a solution, you've got my gratitude; this was going so smoothly until it hit that brick wall.
This means that, if the three paths are not the same, you should be able to tell if at least one of them has a file that just had a bad MD5. Most relevant for Linux peeps I expect.
Note: Untested as of writing
* if you sent it to a client rather than the server, game over, your connection is closed
* if files that don't exist or are too large are requested are listed, game over, your connection is closed (they should have been checked on YOUR side beforehand, silly)
* if the server has downloading disabled anyway, ...yeah, you get the idea
Don't worry, I made sure Got_RequestFilePak cleaned up the full file request list for the node in case of failure
-If the server tries to kick a joiner who is downloading the game state, they will get a timeout instead, because a regular kick would only happen once the game state has been downloaded
-Added a timeout for player ticcmd packets, again to prevent freezes to happen in some cases
-File/game state downloading is now faster, the speed is controlled by the "downloadspeed" cvar, in packets per tic
-The reason is now properly shown when the server refuses connection
-Changed the default values of "nettimeout" to 10 seconds (previously 15) and "maxsend" to 4 MB (previously 1)
-Added a "noticedownload" cvar that displays a message in the server console when someone is downloading a file